tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post6375888736260619798..comments2023-06-10T12:33:38.632+01:00Comments on PEOPLE DON'T EAT ENOUGH FUDGE: Lesson LearnedSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-752746079410884222013-01-15T11:19:58.532+00:002013-01-15T11:19:58.532+00:00That's exactly it Rowen - being able to share ...That's exactly it Rowen - being able to share things without having things clouded by all the things other may know about me - sharing stuff without the fear that it might have a knock on affect on my day to day life.<br /><br />It's a bit like having a seperate reality and I like to be the one to chose if and when they should cross over.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-67595343775697861422013-01-13T13:39:08.409+00:002013-01-13T13:39:08.409+00:00I think a lot of people who write blogs keep it fr...I think a lot of people who write blogs keep it from a lot of the people they see on a regular basis for a number of reasons. It's sometimes nice to be able to vent about things without everyone you know knowing about it, and just to share, but these things could definitely cause tension with people seen regularly unless they're very close to you. Some people who blog do it just to empty their heads without the intention that anyone will ever see it. But there's something comforting about it reaching a relative stranger I think, who can get something out of it, but it should be nigh on impossible for a stranger to exact any judgement cos afterall they don't know you. And someone you know is likely to bring anything you share with all it's connotations into all communication you have...<br />My comment may be a bit long-winded :/Rowenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07577444088626363219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-73082806354435332172013-01-13T05:31:36.124+00:002013-01-13T05:31:36.124+00:00Love you toooo Sal! Did a bit of soul searching a...Love you toooo Sal! Did a bit of soul searching and decided to carry on regardless (can't get rid of me that easily ;) xxxxxSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-63708801323179701402013-01-12T11:53:40.674+00:002013-01-12T11:53:40.674+00:00Babe!! Puh-lease don't stop writing!! And for ...Babe!! Puh-lease don't stop writing!! And for Buddha's sake, don't go all anonymous on us. How the hell would I find you again?? Heavens to Betsy. Just finish the damned Christmas stories I have something decent to read. M'kay?? Love ya guts xxxxxxxxxSalamanderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01035987901395009534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-78378559447248621652013-01-11T08:31:51.917+00:002013-01-11T08:31:51.917+00:00I'll finish it today FC just for you - it was ...I'll finish it today FC just for you - it was pretty wonderful :)<br /><br />Lol K - I'm pretty shameless too when it comes to me - guess I just have to consider other people.<br /><br />Dont worry, plenty more cow shit etc coming from me no doubt and I expect you're right, can't see any of SD's friends having any particular interest in anything I write really. I expect he's forgotten about it already :)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-16353799210647836562013-01-10T22:32:16.903+00:002013-01-10T22:32:16.903+00:00Hmmm, understand everything you've said entire...Hmmm, understand everything you've said entirely and totally relate. <br /><br />You can't stay anonymous not matter how hard you try. If you wouldn't write it on a card in the supermarket, don't put it on a blog. Luckily for me, I have no shame and I'll write just about anything on that card ;) <br /><br />It shouldn't be a stress for you, just leave the old posts in draft. Whatever, you aren't on a marketing gravy train, it's not like they neeeed to be there. Just let them lie.<br /><br />I think cow shit, tow ropes, kittens, naked in front of neighbours, svhool dilemas...they all make fo funny reading and are safe BUT if you need to write out your feelings then either pop out for a note pad or start up a private blog, you can allow people to read it if they request to that way you can control which non-stranglers see your gory details. I know a number of people that write like that and I read them because they need to feed to need to write it out and it's an interaction they require. <br /><br />But whatever SD's friend read or saw, men really don't bother that much, he won't bother again probably and is unlikely to be too strung up on it. Today's news is tomorrow's cat litter and all that.<br /><br />AGuidingLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823333742737762759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-70535281946255210302013-01-10T20:44:40.739+00:002013-01-10T20:44:40.739+00:00Ah, Sarah, you have stumbled into the nonfiction w...Ah, Sarah, you have stumbled into the nonfiction writer's dilemma; it isn't just a blogging thing. As a nonfiction writer (sometimes I want to switch to good, old fiction, with safe "characters"). We are writing about real people! Real events! The soul searching comes with the territory and makes it ten times harder ... as if writing isn't hard enough. In the end, you have to decide where your boundaries lie ...<br /><br />but don't stop writing ... and do publish that Christmas post, please! <br /><br />Christmas in February sounds wonderful.A.K. Knighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16111102807271240215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-10199543261073864462013-01-10T18:29:40.852+00:002013-01-10T18:29:40.852+00:00I think you'd like him too Joe - he's a ve...I think you'd like him too Joe - he's a very easy person to like.<br /><br />Luckily SD isn't the dramatic sort Carmen but I felt like I'd disapointed him and that was almost worse than him being angry.<br /><br />I think it doesn't do any harm to be a little mindful, it's so easy to babble on without thinking (well, for me it is anyway ;).<br /><br />Yep, delivery is key ...Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-68159820429694969932013-01-10T15:54:09.645+00:002013-01-10T15:54:09.645+00:00I am glad you decided to keep writing. I too have ...I am glad you decided to keep writing. I too have had the experience of being 'found'... years ago it caused a shit storm of drama and I too learned my lesson. Somewhat lol. I still post things I probably shouldn't but I am more mindful of how I portray people in my life that COULD potentially hear about it from others who do read my blog. <br /><br />It's all in the delivery... <br /><br />Carmenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03431793991910996392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-74768221075701571382013-01-10T15:02:41.068+00:002013-01-10T15:02:41.068+00:00I think I would like SD.
I don't see anythin...I think I would like SD. <br /><br />I don't see anything on this blog he should be offended by. joehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08520161706680568508noreply@blogger.com