tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post2823071564548067323..comments2023-06-10T12:33:38.632+01:00Comments on PEOPLE DON'T EAT ENOUGH FUDGE: Yin and YangSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-91172912212998665392011-06-15T10:19:31.663+01:002011-06-15T10:19:31.663+01:00Thank you Sandra and Fancy. I'm usually torme...Thank you Sandra and Fancy. I'm usually tormented by the things I could/would/should have said but either didn't think of at the time or didn't have the courage to say.<br /><br />It was an ending for me. I don't even feel the need to tell my side of the story anymore, it's clear some people don't want to hear it.<br /><br />It is sad when friends turn out not to be who you think they are but I found, on the whole, mine were exactly who I thought they were and I wouldn't change them for the world!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-2931590714164220952011-06-15T08:52:13.236+01:002011-06-15T08:52:13.236+01:00Oh those things that feel good in the moment but a...Oh those things that feel good in the moment but are so fueled by pain that 2 seconds later it just feels like shit. Sometimes you just have to shut the door and not let people have the power to hurt you anymore. xI'm So Fancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11186039627894811361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-24752621833881963872011-06-15T02:51:17.419+01:002011-06-15T02:51:17.419+01:00I don't think you were unkind at all, Sarah......I don't think you were unkind at all, Sarah...my marriage hasn't ended, but for some reason, I too have some "friends" who have dropped me for no apparent reason...it is sad, hurtful and also frustrating as you wonder if they were true friends to start off with. I'm glad you said what you said, hopefully it will help you move on.<br />Take care xoSandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05160929538185651224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-4603557056343007342011-06-15T00:22:06.784+01:002011-06-15T00:22:06.784+01:00I'm glad I said it too Nel, it all seemed so f...I'm glad I said it too Nel, it all seemed so false and I couldn't pretend. The hurt went a little too deep for that.<br /><br />I doubt very much I would have said it Catherine if I hadn't already been feeling low. But yes, after everything it did feel like it was turning the last page and closing the book.<br /><br />Thank you both for your comments, it's not my usual kind of post and I know there will be people that feel I was wrong to say it but, unkind as it may have been, it was at least honest.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-48692010279007995292011-06-14T22:39:46.678+01:002011-06-14T22:39:46.678+01:00Oh my god, how dreadful! Your response was complet...Oh my god, how dreadful! Your response was completely understandable, not just because of what you were feeling due to your appt but because this person betrayed you. No other word for it.<br /><br />I know there are those who will say (or think) you should rise above it but I'm not one of them. Sometimes the only thing to say is fuck all and I'm impressed that you did it. I never have but then stew for days- which is ultimately worse. You've cleared the energy, let it go.Catherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16787827077778614821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-68135206913324144012011-06-14T20:14:53.832+01:002011-06-14T20:14:53.832+01:00Good for you. I'm so pleased you said that. Ch...Good for you. I'm so pleased you said that. Chin up lovely.Nelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13052278313401250617noreply@blogger.com