tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post8805129359865921151..comments2023-06-10T12:33:38.632+01:00Comments on PEOPLE DON'T EAT ENOUGH FUDGE: "We Are All A Little Bit BrokenSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-36814445308699527412017-05-24T08:38:47.406+01:002017-05-24T08:38:47.406+01:00I can hardly imagine your pain. You must miss him ...I can hardly imagine your pain. You must miss him terribly. Hugs to you and to both of your lovely children xMommy Stockleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10298031778656512596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-31891000289161018772017-05-11T23:28:34.177+01:002017-05-11T23:28:34.177+01:00Well...maybe he's just not ready yet.
My dad ...Well...maybe he's just not ready yet.<br /><br />My dad had a big rift with his mother. When I was around 13-14, and she came to visit every couple of weeks, Dad went out the back door as Grandma came in the front. Wouldn't speak to her or about her. It went on for about 20 years. Then one day, while I was visiting Grandma at her house, my dad pulled into the driveway and started talking to her like nothing had ever happened.<br /><br />Their problem started when my dad was already an adult. I hope your son sorts things out with you. I know it's heartbreaking. Our son Genius got mad shortly after he left for college, and didn't talk to us for about a month. We were the worst people in the world, according to him. Then he gradually got over it, and everything went back to normal.Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13025832536749983018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-52782953619923162562017-05-11T14:22:58.284+01:002017-05-11T14:22:58.284+01:00It a terrible to thing happen isn't it Joe? T...It a terrible to thing happen isn't it Joe? The reasons and the story don't really matter in the long run, the end result is the same. People are damaged beyond belief. I'm so glad you have been able to re-build a relationship with your son even if it isn't the relationship you should have had. It gives me hope. I still think Master Mac needs his Mum. God know, I know I need him.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-5039300540941977992017-05-11T13:51:49.425+01:002017-05-11T13:51:49.425+01:00Different reasons, different story, but I did not ...Different reasons, different story, but I did not see my son from 18 to 28 and still see him only on occasions. It is sad. He now lives 3000 miles away, but I am visiting next week.<br /><br />I'm hope things will work out for you soon.joehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08520161706680568508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-44605660731316908332017-05-11T12:51:43.723+01:002017-05-11T12:51:43.723+01:00You are right on both counts Sarn, it IS heavily e...You are right on both counts Sarn, it IS heavily edited because to tell the full story it really needs a post of it's own. <br /><br />It's terribly sad because I totally forgive Master Mac for his choices in fact there was never anything to forgive as far as I was concerned. I think he made the wrong choice but I do understand why. I don't think he knows how to come back from it. I do know his Dad takes pleasure in his choices because they hurt me so much. I know he doesn't consider the damage that has been done to our son. I don't think he cares about that.<br /><br />I live in the hope that one day we will mend this, I have to believe that we will, I know we can. xxxSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04402703967636964187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1803854391640222787.post-72076695346413330162017-05-11T11:13:14.712+01:002017-05-11T11:13:14.712+01:00Oh my goodness . . . I know your post was probably...Oh my goodness . . . I know your post was probably highly edited . . . but how terribly sad.<br /><br />That's all I can say.<br /><br />Big hugs going out to you xxxSarnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12174058971522723860noreply@blogger.com